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LetsDiscuss: Four reasons why I will never have an arranged marriage!
Well, I have nothing against being introduced to suitable boy by my parents just as I don’t mind going on a date with someone my friends suggest, I might meet the love of my life in both the cases, but I do have certain problems with the manner in which arranged marriages work in this country.
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Hey .. I really liked what you wrote and I agree with your thought process .. marriage is a big responsiility because you are responsible for the mental , physical and spiritual heallth of another human being and your actions have a effect on his decisions and vice versa . Further it becomes a bigger challenge when one decides to have children because you are to shape a life , a character from scratch. Those who shirk responsibility and decision making even before entering into an alliance as demanding as marriage arent well equipped to lead a wholesome life . These are the ones who end in divorces , are unwilling to work for making the relationship beautifula nd magical and responsible for everyone cribbing that marriages dont work . Know yourself and know who you are and what you are looking for and you will find that perfect mate and only you and you alone can know yourself completely . If done in the right spirit marriage can be a very beautiful and sacred bond .
Put it this way- marriage is nothing but adjusting with your partner.It is a give and take- all marriages have arguments.In the Indian society the females sacrifice and take in a lot of shit.Our men are idiots in kitchen and hardly know any cooking.When the baby arrives you take care of an infant and a 29+ guy who pretends to be a baby and needs attention.
hey tweety dear are u a member of a feminist group or something???? ur comments generally portray that u want to fight for women rights and generally complain about men......
but i agree marriage is an adjustment from both sides.....
hey flakes u really have an amazing thought process.... i would really like to meet u one day, u are a jam of a person it seems,
what u said is absolutely correct, especially the last point.....
i think all of us should find the soul mates by ourselves as we are the ones who want to lead our lives and not our parents, so why go according to their choice only....
and those who feel that they will be able to blame their parents if anything goes wrong should not marry only,
even before marrying the other person if they are trying to shirk the blame then there is no point in marriage....